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Making Your Move Carefully consider financial aspects before selling your home. If you’re like many retired Americans, your home mortgage already is paid off, or soon will be. At last, you own your home free and clear. It’s
hard to beat that kind of security—a roof over your head, and it’s all yours. Looking into your heartThe decision to give up your home in favor of fewer responsibilities is a highly personal one. It involves emotional considerations as well as an objective look at the economic consequences.
Your home is much more than
Lt. Col. A.L. Bigelow, USAF-Ret., and his wife, Mary Lou, are typical of couples who have reached that juncture. “My wife is more willing to make the move than I am,” says Bigelow. “We have our name on the waiting list of a local retirement home, but each time an apartment becomes available, we tell them we’re not ready yet.”a place to live. It’s also a major financial asset that probably has increased substantially in value over the years. “That situation is not unusual,” says Dr. Beverly Jones, a psychiatrist at Wake Forest University School of Medicine in Winston-Salem, N.C. “Husbands typically are more reluctant than wives to give up the familiar surroundings and feeling of control that comes from living in your own home.” For some couples, the emotional stress that comes from the thought of giving up the home they have lived in for many years is a major hurdle to overcome. Others fear too much regimentation or too little privacy in a retirement home. “Most people find that these fears are overdone,” says Jones. “Often, the less demanding and more relaxed lifestyle offered by the typical retirement home helps to put those fears aside after a brief adjustment period.” Other experts agree. Tamara Zurakowski, Ph.D., assistant professor of geriatric nursing at La Salle University in Philadelphia, collaborated with two prominent geriatric scholars who examined the outcomes of seniors moving into retirement homes. “We did not find many negatives,” says Zurakowski. “Many seniors who moved were pleasantly surprised by the number of positives.” Peggy McFarland, Ph.D, LCSW, a social work professor at Elizabethtown College in Elizabethtown, Pa., says, “Most couples I have worked with are very happy with their move to a retirement community. The companionship, social events, and meals seem to make the biggest impact. The move also gives the couple a sense of security knowing that if anything happens to one of them, their spouse will be in a safe place.” Examining your financesStill, many people have even greater concerns about another issue—money. Will their pension, Social Security benefits, and income from savings be sufficient to meet the usually higher costs of retirement-home living? That’s the most important question facing the typical retired couple considering such a move.
Will their pension, Social Security benefits, and income from savings be sufficient to meet the usually higher costs of retirement-home living?
Most retirement communities offer help in answering that question. Counselors will review your financial situation to see whether you meet their minimum requirements for entrance.
This figure will vary among the retirement options depending on whether the upfront deposit is less than or more than the proceeds from the sale of your home. For example, the figure is highest under “upscale Life Care home” because the entrance deposit is higher than the proceeds that would come from the sale of the home in the example. The figure is zero under apartment living because there is relatively little upfront deposit in most apartments.
Choosing a placeWhen you’ve decided to move to a retirement home or community, you’ll have to further refine your search to find the one right for you. There are important differences in operating philosophies of retirement homes. For example, many retirement communities are designed especially for retired military personnel.
“Most couples . . . are very happy with their move to a retirement community. The companionship, social events, and meals seem to make the biggest impact.”
— Peggy McFarland, Ph.D., LCSW “Buy retirement housing the way you buy anything else,” says Zurakowski. “Ask lots of questions, talk to friends or others who have already made the move, and find out how happy they are with their decisions. Most retirement communities have resident councils, and you might want to interview some of the residents to get an idea of how satisfied they are. Any facility that is not open with information and unwilling to answer questions is probably not a good place for you to consider.” McFarland suggests you look past the beautiful lobbies to the apartments and dining areas. “Talk to residents and ask questions about their satisfaction with the community,” she says. “Do you see signs of energy? Do people look busy and happy? Arrange to stay for a meal and talk to people about the food selection. Go back to potential facilities for a number of visits.” For most couples, shopping for a retirement community is a complex task made even more difficult by the weight of economic considerations. The experts interviewed for this story agree that most people adjust to their new surroundings with relative ease. The transition is even easier for those who make a careful analysis of their ability to meet the financial demands of retirement home living. William J. Lynott, a former management consultant and corporate executive, writes on financial topics and has authored the book Money: How to Make the Most of What You’ve Got (iUniverse.com, 2000).
Retirement Living Resources
AARP
America’s largest organization of retired people includes a section on its Web site to help choose a retirement community. www.aarp.org/confacts/housing/ccrc.html American Association of Homes and Services for the Aging This nonprofit organization represents industries and organizations servicing older people. Its Web site includes tips on selecting a continuing care retirement community (CCRC). www.aahsa.org/public/consumer.htm Better Business Bureau The BBB offers important information about CCRCs, including benefits and characteristics, as well as questions to ask when evaluating a CCRC. www.bbb.org Continuing Care Accreditation Commission The nation’s only accrediting body for CCRCs provides a list of all CCRCs that have been accredited. www.ccaconline.org/aflist.htm
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