The SCRA can come into play in family law matters. Understand how the SCRA can arise, and talk with a military legal assistance attorney if you become involved in a family law case.
My servicemember spouse is involved in a court case with a former spouse, and there are issues of how child custody is going to be determined and how much child support my spouse is going to pay. Do any of the protections of the SCRA apply to my family law case?
The SCRA applies to all civil actions, including family law matters. The SCRA makes it clear protections against the entry of court orders in the absence of the military parent and the right to put court cases on hold while a military parent is unavailable apply in child-custody matters. Decisions about who is the custodian of your child and how much child support you might have to pay are very serious decisions a court can make, so the SCRA ensures if military service interferes with your spouse being involved in that decision process, your servicemember should be accommodated by the court to be fully heard on these matters. Keep in mind not supporting your family is a crime under military law; you are paid additional allowances for the support of your family while on active duty. Since calculating child support in most states is largely just an exercise in arithmetic, carefully consider whether to request a stay in a support hearing that might result in a substantial amount of back child support being imposed later by the court.
Family law issues, such as divorce, paternity, child support, and custody, are decided under state law. Every state makes these laws individually, so there can be variation from state to state. If you are stationed in Texas and have been served with a family law case filed in Florida, a Texas attorney may not be able to help you and you will have to find a family law lawyer in Florida who understands the law there. That said, the SCRA is a federal law, and so the protections in that law apply to civil actions throughout the U.S.
Many states have their own laws regarding how child custody cases should be handled for servicemembers. These state-based laws can add to the protections already available under the SCRA. Not every state has adopted these military-specific laws, and they vary from state to state, but the following are some common protections that could be available in these states:
Family law matters can be very complicated, so you are strongly encouraged to talk to a lawyer if you become involved in a family law case. Start with your military legal assistance office, where you can get general family law advice and advice on how the SCRA can help you. But be aware that the military lawyer may not know the law of the state where you have your family law case, and you may need to talk to a civilian attorney in that state to get specific advice.
My spouse has custody of his child from a previous marriage. He is going to be deployed overseas and would like his child to live with his parents instead of with the child's other parent. Does the SCRA allow my spouse to do this?
The SCRA does not cover who will be the custodian of a child in the event of a deployment. If you have a court order of custody, that order might define specifically what happens to the child in the event a servicemember deploys. If that is the case, then you have to either follow the order or go to court prior to your deployment to try to get the order changed. If your court order does not say what happens to the child in the event of a deployment — or there isn’t a court order — you need to create a military family care plan, which will designate where the child will stay while your servicemember is deployed. DoD regulations require you, to the greatest extent possible, to at least consult with the other parent as you prepare the family care plan to reach an agreement on arrangements for your child, and if not leaving the child with the other parent, to obtain the other parent’s agreement to that plan.
There might be conflict with the other parent on the custodial arrangement for your child upon your servicemember’s deployment, regardless of whether you have a court order or family care plan. Speak with a military legal assistance attorney for advice before your servicemember deploys, especially if you anticipate a court action will occur before or during the deployment. Some SCRA procedural protections might be available to you in that situation — but a family care plan is not a custody order. If you created a family care plan that conflicts with a custody order, you should be cautious in asserting your SCRA rights.